They came together in a matrimonial alliance just because their parents felt they were a perfect match for each other. There are those who do not communicate with each other and let destiny do the talking. Also, lack of friendship leads to a situation in which they have to accept what the other person “throws” at them. Since they are unsure of each other’s traits, it is easier to withdraw from letting each other know their concerns. They put off confrontations and agree to what the other person feels or believes without arguing or face the situation in an uncompromising way.
People in an arranged wedlock have to take resort to a compromising mode to accept each other’s weaknesses. Society have evolved in myriad ways than it was before. This include considerations of caste, colour, height, age, and even astrological stars. What challenges to arranged-wedded couples face?Īrranged marriages happen when parents decide on which partner is best for their child in accordance with specific conditions that their children or they might have set. Is this proof that arranged marriages are more successful than love marriages? Does that reflect the fact that two people who hardly try and know each other before marriages can live a peaceful life without conflicts and disagreements? Are they untouched by the differences between men and women with prolonged tussles as a result of their inherent nature? Certainly, doubtful! 18% women in South Asia are forced to marry before the age of 18.Global rate of divorces for arranged marriages is at 6%.
Divorce rate for arranged marriages in India stands at 1.1%.Even if you try and shrug off the question, it will often followed by, “Arranged or love, which do you prefer?” This is most terrifying decision when it comes to deciding how you choose you perfect partner. No matter how qualified we are, marriage is the only question that gives sleepless nights to our parents who are bugged by the entire society when their daughter is in her twenties.
What matters is the ground work that couples do to make their relationships last for a lifetime.Ĭhoosing the arranged or love option is a dilemma that baffles young Indian women in her twenties, who are considered to have achieved the “ripe age” for marriage. So, right at the start, let’s agree to the fact that no single option is the best. Love or arranged I have seen the best of couples fall apart and even the extreme opposites making it till the end. What works on my favour may not work very well for you. You can’t deny the fact that like everything else this too is based on subjective preferences. Now, there exists a huge debate over whether “love marriages” are good or whether “arranged marriages” fare better. If not all, Indian women are socialised to accept marriage as their ultimate resort.
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